The Things People Say

I am constantly amazed at the things people say and ask of others. Like, wow your little one is so big, what did you feed him? Or, you're brave wearing that, I just think they make woman look fat. And one of my favorites, oh you're 31? when are you going to settle down and have kids? Or the most recent, oh, I mean that drive to your new job, how will you manage a family?

What is wrong with people? When is it your business what I do, wear or how I choose to spend my time? And who are you to judge me or someone else's kid? Do you have a filter? Did your mother forget to teach you its not polite to butt into other's business? Seriously.
If you would not want someone to ask you the question, then don't ask it of someone else. And, news flash, its not 1960, I can work, drive, have a family all at the same time!
Crawling off soap box now.

New Chapter, New Me

As I finished my first day at the new job and drove home, I began to reflect on my life. If you had told me a year ago I would leave my firm and join the ranks of Big Law in Dallas, I would have laughed in your face. I am that Fort Worth girl. It was where I wanted to be. I thought I would begin and end my career right where I started. I wanted stability and normalcy and a home. I should have known that all those things were mere comforts that I sought and not what He had in store for me. No, as much as I wanted to shy away from the words or just hang on, and it will get better and this is best for you, I heard more Him calling to me that there was more. There is more to life than what I ever expected. He pulled at my heart and called to me to. Funny, even when you want to put Him on a shelf, He still pursues you. For so long I let fear run my life. I took the safe way towards my goals. I overlooked my abilities and underestimated myself. I never thought I would be good enough for Big Law. I resigned myself to being content where I was. Yes, I learned so much from my first job as a lawyer. I was given so many opportunities and changes to learn and grow. I was loved and cared about. But, as time went on, I began to feel the yearn and need to fly, no soar. This change comes with a mix of fear and excitement. It will be challenging in both personal and professional ways. I will have to rise to the occasion, but I know I can. I know I am more than the pretty blonde who looks good in a skirt and smiles with southern ease. I know I am a force to be reckoned with and capable of more than  I give myself credit for.
I am fierce and fearless.

The Wheels of Justice

As you read this, I am either driving to the new job, sitting at the new job or doing something related to the new job. Yes, today is day 1. Nervous? Yes! Excited? Yes! Scared out of my mind? Duh!
This is the start of a new chapter in my life and for better or worse its coming. 
Meanwhile, yesterday, I spent most of my day doing my civic duty and spent some time on the other side of the bar serving jury duty. It was a DWI case, and needless to say I was struck. However, some things I observed: the prosecutor wad too eager and kinda annoyed me; the defense attorney was smart, to the point and did a good job engaging the panel; people in general are dumb. Yes, dumb. There is no right or wrong answer to their questions people. Just yes or no. See the point of void dire is for the attorneys to figure out based on your feelings how you might vote and if that would be in their favor. So, don't him and haw over answers, just yes or no. And if you want to avoid serving, you need to have a strong opinion one way or another. For instance, don't want to serve on the DWI panel? Tell them you cannot presume the defendant is innocent because if they were arrested they had to have done something wrong. Or, if you had a friend involved in a DWI, tell them that will sway your opinion and you cannot be fair and impartial. There is no need to be polite. You do not need to seem like a nice person or be the good citizen. You have your opinion and you stick to it. And the second way to avoid it, is the be in the back of the panel. 24 veniremen? You are juror 20? not getting picked.
See its the first 6 people not struck who serve on a petite jury and 12 on a full jury. Not they choose the best 6 or 12, but just the first ones not struck for cause or struck for no reason. So, want to avoid? Be unable to  be fair or impartial. Or be an attorney, like me.
Wish me luck today!

One Last Day

It's Monday, the last day of  my lil vacation before I start my new job. And... I have jury duty. Yup, the lawyer has jury duty. 
But, as you know I was in Miami last week. Yes, Wednesday through Sunday in the Emerald State! My sister from another mister lives in Miami so off I went for sun, sea and sand.
I arrived Wednesday afternoon and we headed for food at a lil Cuban place. The conversation was wonderful, the food yummy, and the mojitos--powerful. I had one too many and well.... Let's just say I rallied later and it was a good night.
Thursday we headed down to South Beach, walked around and grabbed some noodles. I also grabbed about 4 pairs of new flip flops! Ash may work at Haivainas....
Friday and Saturday were beach days. The sand was the best feeling between my toes and the water perfect. My skin was dying for a golden kiss and it got it. Saturday we headed to a beach for Dogs on Dunes. We let Dallas, Ash's pup, frolic in the waves and roll in the sand. It was awesome to see all the puppies loving the beach and sea. I missed my babies so much.

If only I had not missed my 8 am flight... Yes it took me an hour to get through security on a Sunday morning. Ran ummm 32 gates and watched the lady close the door.

I finally made it home and it was so good to see the pups and le guy. Now, its off to do my civic duty!

Ven Comigo a Miami

I'm off to the Sunshine State! See ya later Texas, hello Miami!

Life of a SAHW

I am on day 2 of stay at home woman status. It was a day like yesterday that makes me think I could get used to this. I woke up, ate breakfast, took the dog to the groomer,worked out at 10am. I met a friend for lunch, napped, cleaned the house.... ya know it was just wonderful.
I think I could get used to this. Up on the agenda today... massage at 10am and some more napping. Then, I am Miami-bound tomorrow to hang out with my sister from another mister!!

Monday Musings & Some News!

Happy Monday ya'll!! Hope you had a great weekend. Mine was pretty boring as I sat around, slept and binge watched seasons 1 & 2 of Mad Men. I feel like this could be the law, instead of an ad agency any day of the week. So.. I am enjoying some time off before I start the new gig. But I also want to introduce you to something new you will see on the ole bloggy blog... As you know health and fitness is kinda one of my big life things. I have blogged on Wednesday about workouts and such, but now I am teaming up with my BOFF and new friend Carolyn to bring you all a monthly health & fitness link up!

Being healthy is such an important part of our lives, but the craziness of life often gets in the way! The three of us wanted to come up with a way to hold ourselves accountable and help motivate others (and ourselves)…

Which is how “Monthly Motivation – a health and fitness linkup” was born!

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This link up is about motivating yourself and others through fitness and healthy eating. Feel free to share your week's workouts, your favorite healthy recipes or if you want, your failures of the week. We're all here to cheer each other on and hold each other accountable, so we can collectively reach our goals.
We will have this link up just once a month and will occur on the last Tuesday of the Month! So grab your button and get motivated! You have all month. We will see you back here on Tuesday August 26th!!