I sat around a table tonight with some amazing people. We ate and laughed, caught up on your days and lives and prayed for those who were not with us. I know these people. I know what they do, where they live, how they make money, their hopes and dreams, fears and worries, even their weaknesses. See, sitting around this table is my family.
No, we are not related, nor married, nor sisters and brothers, we are a family united in Christ. We have chosen to adopt each other as brothers and sisters. We trust one another, confide in one another and speak truth to one another.
We are not a Bible study, small group, community group, we are a family. We choose to do life together, all of it. Not just the good, but fighting alongside one another through the bad as well. We have our ups and downs, our disagreements, our good and bad days, but we do it together.
I had not been around this table in a number of weeks. I had let work and life get in the way of my family. I let stress and exhaustion win out over being present for the people that have consistently cared for me. I withdrew in a time of need instead of drawing closer to those who comfort me. I have been wondering why I was so off as of late and the longer I sat there the more I realized I had been focusing too much on the wrong things.
I find joy in others. I thrive off the energy of people. I cannot do it alone.
I am the exact same way! I need people to support me, as well.
ReplyDeleteSo wonderful that you have the support and love of such an awesome family. :)
ReplyDelete"chosen" family is such a blessing for sure! I couldnt imagine my life without the support of my dearest. They love you and you bless them in return. Its a win win.
ReplyDeleteIt's such a blessing to have "family" around...even if they aren't related by blood--that's what makes life worthwhile, helps ease the hard times, and makes the good times that much better!
ReplyDeleteSo glad that you have this amazing support system around you - that's definitely a huge blessing! It's rare to find friends who support you through anything, so hold on to them, sweet girl! :)
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