Guess what day it is?
When I last left you, I was post Miss Texas and feeling good! I continued my working out and eating healthy throughout the next year of my life. This was my last year working at TCU and before law school. I went up and down, but maintained a pretty standard weight. And then I went to law school.
Law school, to say the least, is stressful. I was away from home and M, and on a crazy schedule. Working out became my go-to for everything: stress-relief, boredom, depression... I became obsessed. Like, not in a good way, obsessed. I weighed myself everyday, 3 or 4 times a day. I refused to drink, refused to eat sweets, existed on eggs whites, apples, granola bars and grilled chicken and veggies. It was boring, but it was something I COULD CONTROL! Yup, it was all about control.
I could control what I ate and how I looked, so I did it. I got down to about 110 pounds at one point, and at 5'6, that is not healthy. We are talking pointy hip bone skinny. i thought I looked so good. I also did anything to stay that way. Pills, laxatives, running twice a day. I just needed to feel in control.
Obviously this could not last. Once I stated to work, I slowly put on some weight. I freaked out. I tried to keep it up, but I sit all day long, work 10-12 hours a day and was getting older. At first, I did not know what to do and tried to pretty much do anything, but then I realized it was all too much. The toll it took on my body was bad. My metabolism was shot, I was even more depressed, and hangry people.
Somewhere in between 29 and 30 I realized I looked good, but I was not really "healthy." I was skinny, but not toned or again healthy. So, I embraced my newly formed hips, the extra pounds and curves and decided to get fit.
Sure, I still have my issues and wish i could go back to that weight, but I know that now I am strong and healthy. I allow myself things I enjoy and refuse to starve myself. I just maintain a good balance.
Ok, and now for a treat. My good friend & workout buddy Sam is going to share some wonderful tidbits with you all from time to time. Sam has a BS in Kinesiology with a certification in biology. He is also a certified sports nutritionist and master certified personal trainer. He is not only a good friend, but sometimes kicks my butt into shape! So, meet Sam!
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I guess I will begin by thanking
my sweet friend and training partner, Lynn, for the opportunity to chime in
every once in a while on her brilliant and very entertaining blog. Don’t let her beauty and charm fool you
though, she is an animal in the gym as a training partner.
For my first guest entry, I would
like to answer a question that I get most in my profession. I train people from all walks of life with
different goals in mind. I would like to
think that a well-round trainer/wellness coach/athletic coach exhibits the
ability to accommodate everyone’s personal goals and needs while incorporating
ability or lack thereof. With this in
mind, I do not shy away from the challenges of an elderly couple with
musculoskeletal disorders, an athlete recovering from ACL surgery, or even Miss
Texas competitors preparing to hit the stage (although, I am not going to lie,
I was a bit intimidated by it). So as you can imagine, I get all kinds of
questions from clients, some pertinent, some downright silly. One question that I seem to get from them all
is: What is the best form of training out
there? Or does one form of training work better and faster than the others?
Between my personal training
business and the supplement companies I help run, I probably answer this
question 10 times a month. Here is my short and honest answer: I don’t know.
I find solace in the fact that I
can say unequivocally that no one does.
The smartest and most intelligent people in this world know more about
medicine than they do about the body’s physiological response to diet and
exercise. The truth is that exercise is a relatively new concept that has not
been studied long enough to speak to a definite and concrete evaluation of what
works best. We are all very different
and our bodies respond differently to the various methods of training out
there.
My advice is to try it all. Find
a method that you enjoy and that works for you.
Don’t let the stage competitors of the world tell you that lifting is
the only way. Don’t spend hours and hours on the treadmill simply because you
see these marathon runners on television doing it. Crossfit and their cult like
ways? It isn't for everyone, trust me.
In the end, the most elite
athletes in the world cross train- or in other words, they
do it all! Kevin Durant, arguably the
best basketball player in the world, cycles in the off season. Maria Sharapova does crossfit to supplement
her hours of hitting tennis balls on the court.
Michael Phelps lifts weights to prevent muscle breakdown during his hours
of cardio training in the pool.
So be open to it all. Develop a
routine along with a positive attitude towards the regimen and stay consistent.
Focus on your destination. The road traveled to get there doesn't matter.
Thanks Sam!! So link up and if you have any questions for Sam let me know and I will pick his brain! xoxo ya'll
I love that you shared your story. I'm sure there are lots of ladies out there who can relate, on many levels, with your feelings and struggles. Probably all of us. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteWOOHOO Workout weds! Sorry I'm not linking up, but I will next week.
ReplyDeleteCONTROL! What a loaded word right?!!? I'm glad you got control of what makes you feel good/bad and are on a happy path now. You look great by the way!
Thanks for the tips trainer Sam!
Workout Wednesday sounds like fun! I'll have to join next week!
ReplyDeleteI totally feel you on being gym obsessed in law school! It's hard not to let the intensity of the atmosphere carry over into home & what should be an outlet/way to escape the stress.
I am loving that you he called you an animal in the gym. I about died laughing when I read that - mostly because you are just so sweet, so 'animal' would be the last descriptor I would come up with for you! Get em' girl! Loving that you are in a better, healthier more accepting place with your body. No pointy hip bones - yuck!
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