1. Confrontation - Of any kind. As in I do not like to confront people or have people mad at me. I cannot go to bed mad at people etc... I want to talk things out. That lingering tension in the air just makes me all squirmy and awkward.
2. Talking on the phone - Yes, you heard me talking, what? me? lawyer? Yeah. Totally hate calling people from opposing counsel to making hair appointments. I would rather die than call a doctor and ask if they have availability. M used to do all that for me. From doctors, cars, random calling of stuff that I needed. Guess that means I have to either 1) suck it up or 2) con someone else into doing those things for me.
3. Not knowing things - as in what did I do wrong? was my research good? does he like me? why did he stop calling? what will I be doing in 1, 5, 10 years? I just want to know, I think its the perfectionist in me.
4. Silence - Yes, I cannot do it. I feel the need to fill every ounce of time when talking to someone. It tends to make me ramble on and on and on (don't stop believing... anyone?) I will go into the most random or awkwards to avoid lull in conversation, which normally ends in people thinking I am tre annoying. Oh well.
5. Saying no. - I hate telling people that I do not want to do something. Like when they invite you somewhere and you already have plans or what they want you to do I have no interest in. Just makes me odd to say umm well, err, I would rather not. I just hate hurting people's feelings so I either make up something or end up going and feeling even more uncomfortable. yeah I know... goes back to #1.
So, I know that I do not have things like feet, armpits, etc.. that make me odd, but hey that's what makes the world go 'round.
UGH CONFLICT just makes me squimish, yuck!
ReplyDeleteI totally forgot my fear of calling people I don't know. Can't stand it, so hard to call for appointments, :(
I LOVE YOU!
I am with you on all of the above!!! Love you! Happy Friday sweet friend :)
ReplyDeleteI HATE making phone calls. Which sometimes also makes me a really bad friend...Ooops! And I hate conflict too - you and I would definitely not be good 'real housewives' - since all those ladies do is fight!!! Saying no is hard to do, but we both need to work on that. Happy Friday pretty girl:)
ReplyDeleteI absolutely hate talking on the phone, to the point when if my phone rings and it's after 5:00pm, I roll my eyes and instantly get mad at the person. Email is perfectly acceptable in my eyes.
ReplyDeleteI hate not knowing. It drives me insane.
ReplyDeleteI think we're the same person. I hate all of these.
ReplyDelete1,2, and 5 are problems of mine!
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