I have this sense that something is missing in my life. I kind of touched on this yesterday, but kind of confirmed it whilst facebook chatting with one of my besties yesterday. I admitted I kind of missed sorority life, not so much for the college part of it, but the sister part of it.
Women need friendship, companionship, face it, we need someone to gossip and shop with. And its not like men who can sit across from each other, say nothing, and watch TV and feel like they hung out. We need that interaction between parties. That has been missing in my life. Sure I've got friends, but not like I used to. In law school I had constant interaction, girl talk in K and I's carrel and cupcake time. Life before law school I was a single girl, worked with all women and close to my college friends. But now, I'm married, living in the suburbs, commuting everyday. I lunch sometimes, or the occasional dinner, but I never really "see" my friends. And hubs and I don't have couple friends that we do things with. (And I love hubs, but let's face it, he's not the same as your girlfriends).
So, as my friend and I discussed my missing link, I also began to ponder whether part of what was missing was God. I have not been to church in well like a long time. I used to attend every Sunday in law school. It grounded me, got me ready for the week and allowed me time to reflect. So, perhaps I need a few things. My friend and I decided we needed to find our way back. We could both use a good church home to ground us and provide that piece we are missing. So here's to finding the missing link.
We all go through it at some point. We feel lost, empty, or just like something is off. Take the time to find what that is. It could be friends, alone time, a good book, God, or simply just an off day. Don't doubt yourself though, you know you best and when something isn't right, take the time and fix it.
Good for you lady. Maybe God was touching your heart so you can find Him again?
ReplyDeleteI hope you find what you are looking for! Praying for ya! xxoox
Oh friend... I can hardly make it through my week unless I have gone to church. I am never shy about saying Sunday is my favortie day. Aside from hearing God's word, I love love love the fellowship time I have with my church family. Its good, warm and wholesome. I wish you could come to church with me! But I do hope you find one you love.
ReplyDeleteAnd I know what you mean about missing the social aspect of law school. I was with my law school girlfriends for hours and hours each day. Once it was over, I really had withdrawal symptoms. And you are right... the fabulous husbands that we have are no substitutes. But you are so nice and social. I have no doubt you will find what you need.
Good for you! I support you on this 100%. I have struggled with some of the same feelings as you since I got married a little over a year ago. I moved to a new city for my husband, and while I wouldn't change it for the world, I missed my friends, city life, and the support of family close by. Honestly, one of the only things that has made me feel better has been the connections I have made through the church we attend here and the strengthening of my faith. I hope it does the same for you! Wishing you the best:)
ReplyDeletei think you know exactly what can fill the missing part, the Lord! and as he does that, he will also grant you the desires of your heart and give you amazing friends! I can attest to that!
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