Moving On

So I've been pretty busy today and wasn't going to blog, until I saw a post by a good friend on her wall. It was a picture with a quote, and when I read the words I was moved.

This applies in more than the friend world. I have often thought about being fired from my first job, and I have pondered why they didn't like me, or what I did that was so bad to warrant termination. In relationships women often think we did something wrong (and most often we have) that made the relationship fail. Friendships are this way too, as are jobs and I have discovered: clients.

We all have those moments when we need closure on some aspect of our life and the first thing we do is blame, not ourselves, but the friend, spouse, bf/gf, boss, etc.. you get the point. Perhaps its not that the person or thing was bad, it was just time for that part of our story to close. It's the end of the chapter, so to speak, in the life of you.

So look not to blame what ails you, but look at it as a new chapter to begin, or as a wise professor posted, turning the page to read something new into your life story. Remember, every day is a new page. You get to write that page of your life, you can chose to begin a new chapter, end one, or simply continue the story, but each day is a new beginning, a new opportunity to make yourself who YOU want to be.
 ~The Illegal Blonde