I know I have totally screwed up the old adage of "be seen, nor heard," but its because in my line of work, you have to speak up... sometimes. As the newest associate (hopefully) attorney, and one of just three females, I have to make sure that I am seen as much as heard. By this I mean, I get to the office by 7:30 (which I still cannot manage to beat Boss in) and leave after Boss. Its's that extra hour that I am there before most other partners that makes a difference sometimes. So if that means 5am workouts to make, then that's what I do!
Being heard is also important. I know I have discussed my reluctance to actually speak with attorneys, but I know I must. But it doesn't always have to be about work. I make sure to go to lunch with the boys at least once a week, even when it gets awkward (note to self, watch more stupid-humor movies). The point is you have to make an effort to show people that you are a team player and can handle the work. Showing up early means committment. Now, I'm not saying to sleep in your office ( I know you all have heard horror stories from first-year associates). I am blessed (well I am now) that I'm treated like a person. No over-bearing bosses who throw projects at you with no answer just for the heck of it, or projects for which they know the answer and just want to test you. No I work with rather well-adjusted people who have "lives" outside the office. Yes the work hard and often, but they also stress the importance of family.
So remember if something is worth it to you, be seen and heard! ~Illegal Blonde
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